I am a bisexual man. After all, in her own words, she is the leading expert in this field of mixed-orientation marriages however, I haven't found a single organization that has bestowed that title on her, neither does she list any. Temporarily out of stock. There was a problem filtering reviews right now. Written by counselor Bonnie Kaye, M. It challenges the reader to look at "self" - which is what a self-help book is supposed to do. Shattered Lives Volumes 1 and 2 ; Manreaders:
It explains the loss of sexual and self-esteem and guides women through the mourning and recovery process. In her sixties now, half of her life has been about holding onto anger. Forgiveness does not mean condoning wrongful acts; it does not mean ignoring the hurt and the pain; it does not mean granting a pardon, or reconciliation or forgetting. Amazon Music Stream millions of songs. I married her because I was in love with her, and I still love her so much.
There are far better resources than what she offers. You offer forgiveness for your own sake, not for the other person. They don't just crash down out of the sky in front of you like Space-Lab. After the painful demise of her own marriage due to these circumstances, Kaye found understanding and enlightenment by starting her own support group, Spouses of Gays Association SOGA , in Philadelphia in the early s.
The original Straight Wives: I have fought these feelings of male attractions for many years. Get to a counselor who helps you become you; not to an angry person who sends you on a witch-hunt and when that fails, role-models how to wallow in victim-hood for the rest of your life. Some might dismiss these numbers as unimportant, that it's not the real subject matter at issue here. I never meant to hurt her. The University of Sydney.